Lose your job or discover that your partner is cheating on you, you don`t count as a real combat or flight situation. These can be painful emotional situations, because life changes and the ego is broken, but the life of your physical body is not in danger. Most of the time, anger and fear seem to fall into the category, not blameless. The four agreements© were published in 1997 and have sold about 9 million times. He has been on the New York Times bestseller list for nearly a decade. Everything we do is based on agreements we have made – agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are those we make with ourselves. Ruiz explains that this agreement is certainly the most important, but that the most difficult thing is to respect it.  For this agreement, Ruiz first analyzes the word «irreprocible.» The perfectly irreproachable word comes from the Latin word peccatus, which means «sin,» and the term «im» at the beginning of blame is the Latin prefix meaning «without.» Ruiz describes a sin as all that goes against himself, and therefore to be impeccable with language is to assume the responsibility of one and without judgment against oneself and against the other.  This agreement focuses primarily on the importance of speaking with integrity and carefully choosing the words before saying it out loud.  In order to keep this agreement simple with your word flawless, it will take time and exercise to master.
Don`t think you`ll control it in your life. At the same time, you don`t think you`re not. Just know that every year you become more impeccable with your word, you have more love and happiness in your life and your relationships. The word is so powerful that a word can change a life or destroy the lives of millions of people. A few years ago, a man in Germany manipulated an entire country of the most intelligent people with this word. He led them into a world war with the force of his word. He convinced others to commit the most cruel acts. He activated people`s fear with the word, and like a big explosion, there were murders and war all over the world. All over the world, people have destroyed other people because they are afraid of each other.